Determining when the right time to plan your pet's euthanasia is an excruciatingly difficult decision. It is one of the few times in your life that you will have to choose to end the life of something that you love. Nothing in our past experiences prepares us for this experience. This page and the quality of life worksheet is written to help you to make that decision with a more informed clarity.
One of the first things that you should do is to start assessing your pet on a daily basis. Refer to our Quality of Life Worksheet page to help you to understand some of the factors that you should be monitoring as a way of deciding whether or not your pet's medical conditions are affecting his or her life. This worksheet will allow you to more specifically characterize the factors which are affecting your pet's lifestyle.
It will also allow you to track the progression of your pet's symptoms so you can objectively monitor whether he or she is deteriorating over time. As your pet ages or as his or her disease progresses you should repeat this quality of life worksheet which will allow you to become more aware of subtle deterioration that may be occurring over time. The worksheet can be repeated on a weekly or monthly basis depending on how quickly things are changing.
Start asking yourself if your pet's good days are outnumbering the bad days, or if it is the other way around? Devote a calendar specifically to your pet and mark on a calendar how you think he or she is doing each day so that you can track the trend. You could use the letters G or B or develop a score system of 1 to 5. When the bad days consistently outnumber the good days then the decision to euthanize is probably a fair choice.
Gentle Goodbyes offers a in-home Quality of Life (QOL) examination to pets in the Treasure Valley area. With a QOL exam a veterinarian will come to your house and perform a full physical exam on your pet. We will also take a careful history to find out what diseases or orthopedic conditions your pet may suffer from and what medications they are currently on to help them. We will then observe your pet in his or her home environment and backyard. From observing your pet at home we will have a better idea of how they move, whether they are in pain or not, whether they are able to eat comfortably and how they interact with the other pets and human family members. This will give us the best idea of how your pet is doing in his or her own environment. With this in-home examination and history we can suggest ways to improve your pets quality of life and mobility in his or her own home. We can also make recommendations of what diagnostics or tests that you may want to discuss doing at your family veterinarian and if you at interested in more advanced options or diagnostics we can refer you to the proper veterinary specialist in the area.
If your pet is suffering from a chronic disease or a terminal condition the veterinary specialists can help you to better understand your pets disease. We can make suggestions on how to maximize his or her comfort and how to extend their life in a way where he or she remains content and happy. We can also discuss how your pet's disease will progress and we can go through the ways in which your pet may deteriorate. We can explain the specific warning signs that you will be looking for that indicate that your pet is becoming uncomfortable or unhappy. We can also explain what organ systems might be affected as your pet's disease progresses and what symptoms you will start to notice as the disease starts to affect these systems. We will carefully explain what the warning signs are that you will watch for in your pet that will prompt you to call Gentle Goodbyes for our final services. We will also educate you on what signs are considered emergencies and should prompt an immediate phone call to a veterinarian to relieve your pet from this discomfort.
Because we are not a full service veterinary hospital we do not carry any medications or laboratory equipment, we cannot do any diagnostics such as bloodwork, X-rays, ultrasound nor can we dispense medications or give treatments. We can however make recommendations of the best ways to get medical answers about your pet and we can help improve his or her quality of life within their home environment and with the activities that your pet likes to perform.
It is easy to feel guilty when making this decision, but always remember that you have taken care of your pet to the best of your abilities, for as long as you were able, within the circumstances of your life. Because of you, your pet has lived a longer and happier life than he or she would have lived if he had not been adopted into your family. Animals in the wild are not given the luxury of the medical care and conveniences that you were able to give to your pet and thus, never make it to the advanced ages or states that you were able to provide for your pet.
At some point you will have to decide if your pet's quality of life is a good one or not. There can be many factors that play into making this decision. Some of these factors may revolve around circumstances of your own life. Perhaps your debilitated or orthopedically challenged pet is too large in size for you to easily manage or comfortably care for. Perhaps your work life is too busy to adequately meet the needs of a debilitated or geriatric animal? Perhaps your family's financial situation prohibits you from treating an expensive or terminal medical problem that your pet may have. All of these factors are real ones and are fair to consider when you make the decision of whether or not your pet is happy.
All of these reasons listed above are valid reasons to consider euthanasia. It can be particularly difficult to make this decision if your pet still seems mentally normal but his or her body is not cooperating.
DIFFICULTY BREATHING - signs of this include - Extreme respiratory effort, unable to lie down or sleep because they are unable to sleep in certain positions, loud open mouthed breathing (especially in cats), blue or purple gums, inability to stand or walk without needing to rest to breathe.
EXTREME PAIN - signs of this may include - not wanting to stand or move, inappropriate aggressive behavior, screaming or vocalizing uncontrollably, being unable to comfortably lie down.
Although it is normal to feel uncertainty about when the correct day is, try to use the tools we have given you to assess the happiness of your pet. If your pet is not happy, then as owners, the last stage of care of your pet may be to ensure that your pet is not suffering. Sometimes to alleviate our pet's discomfort or pain we have to take pain or discomfort upon ourselves.
As a last note, keep in mind that most veterinarians are offering to do a home euthanasia because they believe it is important and because they believe that it is the way it should be. Most are doing home euthanasia outside of, or in addition to, their traditional jobs working as veterinarians at a hospital. For most veterinarians doing home euthanasia multiple times a day would become too heartbreaking and too emotionally devastating. For these reasons our euthanasia service is available in limited blocks of time throughout the week. Therefore home euthanasia is by appointment only and may not be available on a daily basis.
It is important to keep this in mind when deciding whether or not you want a home euthanasia for your pet and to consider how you think their condition is progressing. We would like to help every pet and every family exactly when they want the euthanasia appointment but unfortunately this option is not always possible.