Grieving

The pets in our life are much more than just animals, they are family members. They may be a bit fuzzy but they are none-the-less, family members.

Our pets have provided us with companionship, friendship, and unconditional love. They have acted as work partners, exercise partners, hiking companions, baby sitters, playmates for our children, companions for elderly or disabled people in our lives, and a friend to cuddle with when we need love or support. When we lose one of them the emotions of grief will be just as strong and just as variable as if we have lost a beloved human friend or relative.

The emotions of grief can be a roller coaster ride. One minute you may be sad, the next minute angry, at another time you may feel listless and at other times guilty. These emotions are normal and real. Sometimes they can be overwhelming. Don't underestimate how strong the human-animal bond can be.

Your pet was a very important part of your life and thus your emotions are bound to be equally as powerful. With time if you do not find yourself recovering from your grief you may want to verbalize your emotions or feelings with someone you trust. You may find it helpful to seek the advice of a professional or chat with others on-line who are experiencing similar emotions. Be patient with yourself, remember that grief will ebb and flow over time and may take a prolonged period of time to resolve.

Below we have provided some resources which may help you through this difficult time. Some provide chat rooms or on-line grief resource classes.